He said he put it in the front seat. I can only thank my lucky stars that I don’t run into him more than once a week or so. I have this friend who is a maasive liar and recently, me and some other friends, discovered the biggest lie he ever told us – he told us he was going on a trip for two weeks, in a foreign country, in order to take part in an internship for a job. These people will stop at nothing to lie minipulate and simply feel powerful from the tactics. In my line of work this can be a crippling and sometimes devastating trait to work with. There is no point in arguing with them, show them every bit of proof in existence but it’s not their reality because it doesn’t suit their need/supply. I’m sorry U have to work with this person and I can honestly say Ur Are Not alone in this Crazyness and Unfortunatley neither is Ur Co-worker! Since every sociopath lies, it is reasonable to ask if we can use … My son found his half siblings on facebook and I did a bit of checking and it appeared like grooming. I went to get it. I am sure that it was a sign from God at the time (and I am not a religious man) but I was obviously to under her spell to see the “sign”. If you come across someone who you think is a sociopathic liar, beware! She wants what I have to she is just playing me. I am facing the same pain. Sick!!! They need to see that we all are responsible for ourselves and there comes a time when the excuses must stop. ‘Restraining orders won’t stop a bullet’ he said. I looked up the show and there was a good luck message from the new york cast and crew. My husband did this. During their marriage, my father would mysteriously quit jobs & leave the bread-winning to my mom for moths at a time. Maybe I should have. He lives in the middle of no where through private rental (is on ticka because he never pays rent) ,a broke minipulitive coward who may make you think he cares about you but everything he does for you is only to benefit himself. Now my daughter is 16, straight A student and a wonderful little human being that I am so proud of. It is very frustrating to work with this individual. So I’ve been working with this woman for the past two years and realised very early on that she obviously had an issue with telling the truth. It didnt faze me at all): i wonder sometimes if im psychotic. I pray daily. She breaks into my room and stills money and clothes (just to hide them in her room or throw them away). I am at my wits end. My poor children all grown now realize what he is and hate him for it. My whole life taken from me. She needs to continue with counselling with or with out him, for her own well-being. He also forced my signature and rented a house in my name ( he told me the house was for me ) but I realized later on that he couldn’t rent it because he didn’t even have a passport because he was wanted by the police… and he didn’t pay the landlord so I arrived at the airport in dubai and I got arrested because of a non paid lease contract if 850,000 Dhs. How do I get her to see he is a sociopath. Why are people that lie, trick, decieve, manipulate, to this degree, ruining good peoples lives, not locked away in dungeons to rot until death?! I told her before we got serious, that I my ex wife would try to destroy her if we married. I have experience with this professionally (in the mental health field) and personally. Latest is my son calls me cold & unfeeling as I’m running out of energy to cope psychologically with this. I really dont know what to do. I wonder if she has been lying to that counselor also?! I wish everyone who have had the unfortunate experience with a sociopath the strength to move on without them in their lives. It’s the same scenario with my sister. I still did not realise how big they were. Now she has even said that I will only see my grandchild if she “likes my attitude” or not…..and smiled when she said it. (That’s not to say all sociopathic liars are criminals, of course). People like this, you want as far away from your or your loved ones lives as possible. Problem is, I have to witness her mess with people on a daily basis. I didn’t tell my son all about his father or what had happened to us because he is half of us both and I think we should all be let make our own judgements if they need be made. A sociopath chronically ... Trump is a pathological liar, and recently cracked the 12,000 false or misleading statements barrier. She successfully got a peace order against me for the most outlandish story, even though I had witnesses to prove she was a liar. No dog food, no neighbor. Trouble is I’m running out of energy coping with it & they live 200 miles away! No FEELINGS! By Shane Croucher On 10/3/19 at 9:14 AM EDT. It is very serious. What grandmother would do this? He’s miserable. My son is a sociopath. It is really weird to watch. In fact, sociopaths are adept at creating fairy tales and living within those fairy tales as their lies and reality merge. Okay so im going to just put this out there. I don’t ever see this happening in my family’s case. This can include placing the blame at someone else’s door or by inventing complex stories to cover up their untruths. At first my ex was furious about this. Makes me so angry that they destroy good people for falling for their attention seeking lies. God bless you. I knew she cheating. He even lied that I did something to him and I did not. Their word is fact and there is nothing else no matter what the proof. I never really read them, don’t do Facebook. I left my job for this guy so I’m the end i didn’t have any money to support myself. When I called her out on the fact she was blaming me, she said “there you go using the word “blame” again. I can’t do that. Swears “it’s nothing”. She has managed to create MASSIVE conflict out of nothing and has always manage to end up looking an innocent bystander. But with consistency and determination we sre finally at a place where we are happy. A week later he is back to normal abuse and threats in my face. Please note that he is very skinny and doesn’t practice any sport. This is the cycle of psychological and mental abuse that goes along with being in a relationship with a sociopath, which is turn means being in a relationship with a pathological liar, they go hand in hand. She wouldn’t understand and would give new number to her mother. In my hub "The Entitled" this behavior is spotlighted. Emotionally, the pathological liar is manipulative, has poor behavioral control and is shallow and heartless with a parasitic lifestyle. We were only together 3 weeks when he left. These are the people whom everyone thinks they are wondearful. I have come to believe he’s a sociopath. Read up on “gray rock” method , these individuals thrive on our reactions, especially to all their lies . She was cruel to me, and drove me to take an overdose, almost 2 years ago. Adam I really need your help my sons father fits all of these and he even passed a court ordered mental evaluation. So I soon just stopped responding to her crap. I used to be a frightened willy nilly innocent sister…but he has helped hardened me to expect his never ending constant bs, and am always ready and empowered myself with a gun…I carry it with me always… One day I was getting groceries from car and noticed a car pretending it was going to hit me ,BuT… The one behavior that characterizes the human race is so widespread that most of the time we don’t even notice it. It is the lies she has told about myself over the last four years, that has destroyed my life, and she cares not one jot; lies have served her very well throughout her life, and lies are the first thing she turns to, and life is all about her needs, other people’s needs hold no value for her, unless their is public reward for being seen to be helpful, or caring. When I was 12, he left & they finally divorced. I can relate to you both. And yet when you put it to him that his behaviour is abhorrent, he becomes defensive and pushes it back. It’s difficult to confront this guy simply because of the close quarters we all live in. They are also likely to lie about previous relationships to their current victims. Find a new job, only tell one or 2 trusted people that you are leaving. Several weeks ago I introduced the idea that lying is the cardinal symptom of sociopathy/psychopathy. When we 1st met he told me he was worth millions which was a huge red flag but was designed to make me feel small. I relate to the little stupid lies with my sister, they seem so unnecessary and yet they seem to get a kick out of telling lies to anyone who will listen. hes driving me crazy and most of all my son is suffering he’s only 5 and he doesnt deserve to live like this. He is charming and good looking and he is so convincing when he speaks. SP “sociopath” told his family he had lukemia which his daughter & son didn’t understand as they where too young & havs a learning disabilitie. From day one my mother in law and has made my life hell. It’s been hard on her and me. If you are going to go out of your way trying to build evidence against him, you may just frustrate her more. Even tho my ex would say “oh you need to pick her up from school”. That means that they can look you right in the eye and lie to you and not show the usual markers that would give them away. Thanks for sharing your story cause I know it’s not a easy thing to do. A sociopath is often goal-oriented (i.e., lying is focused—it is done to get one’s way). I even talked with a lawyer who said my tests made it a relatively easy case. Share. … He throws his arm down like the king when he has to stop watching golf or football, in fact he enjoys making me wait to talk until commercials. but asked me not to mention it to her family?!! You’ve confirmed that I absolutely did the right thing by keeping away from him. Its your choice. My father is a sociopathic liar! Pay attention to contradicting versions of the same story. When I found out my husband was a narcissistic , sociopath, he turned into this evil vile creature. What does he do… scurries to create receipts and GIA REPORT for the stone… all of it fraudulent… but the ring that was in my wallet safe and sound… has been taken from my wallet. Thank God I have faith that He can deal with her. Can these personalitys change? She blames me for our marriage ending. But my new wife handled it with dignity and class. We busted him when we found out he had been home the whole time, although we suspected it – someone ran into him on the street on a day when he was supposed to be abroad, he has no evidence of ever being there, he posted false statuses on social media, claiming he was there,while the location in the status was our hometown and he told vague stories about the place where he was, the sort of stories you can tell using wikipedia, no details, no feelings- nothing. Please stay true ourselves to help ward them off! The following week he took off more time to arrange his father’s funeral. All the best to you. I found reading about gaslighting really helpful. He said that he thought I was gougeon to kill him and moved in with a female he claimed he hated but had to for his own safety and he said that I had stolen half a million pound off him. I have known many such people and I love them. She is only 15 years old, and the word manipulative doesn’t begin to describe her. A pathological liar is someone who compulsively tells lies or fabricates information out of habit. Because we do compare stories. She has stolen money, clothes, etc. If someone questions the sociopath’s lies they can be incredibly devious in the way they cover things up. She was caught in so many lies and she still won’t tell the truth. He will tell me something then swear he didn’t say it. I’m sad on the inside because I don’t hate but everything is so heavy on my shoulders from the mess he has created and I hate myself for being so stupid to have been so blind and not seeing this coming. In the first year she was obsessed with becoming a mother. Next…claiming that her hubby had booked a romantic week away to Jamaica for them in October (This was August)..a couple of days before she was supposed to be going away, it changed to Mexico (I’d checked, there were no flights to Jamaica that day – she’d obviously done the same)…we spoke the night before she was due to leave and said she wouldn’t be in touch…I smelt another rat….3 days later I’m outside her house seeing her putting her daughter into a taxi – I made sure she saw me… I have been taking care of an elderly gentleman for two years who’s daughter is Exactly the person you describe I was only able to begin an escape with legal and psychiatric support. This is unheard of. So I had to go to the extremes and change my phone number. Thank God I got out and quick but I’m scared of men now and don’t trust them anymore very damaging I feel they should pay a price. You won’t often hear them laugh, cry, or get angry. pmmcray--It is much more common now. I got married 30 years ago . Burning his friends truck for insurance scam. I wish I had read this a year ago. Voted up + awesome!! Our families knew each other before we were born. When I ask him about her he says she’s just a girl he knows, nothing is happening between them. Always remember when dealing with the sociopath—they will do whatever it takes to win. What does that mean? You cannot change them, and if you think for some reason you are special, you are only fooling yourself. Awful. It's sad to know that some people are just that way and there is no way to help them. He said he was at their headquarters in forest hill and I knew the hq was in woolwich…. I felt something wasnt adding up. I’m so broke and hurt on the inside. Really bad evil guy.Wolf in sheep’s clothing. I have never let on that I hated her or that she was an evil, cheating, lying, slandering skank. It’s hard to know at first with these unbalanced people cause their expert skill with people is to con them into believing one thing and then use and manipulate for their own twisted psychic needs. “At the end of my book, I say that a sociopath is described as someone with no conscience. Every time I would date someone she would attempt to destroy that relationship. Wow can I relate to all the stories, I lived with this guy that we were to be married, but soon realized that he could not be trusted in what he was telling me, well it lasted six months and we both went our ways,which was a Blessings , as it was getting worse as time went on, I could not believe much he was telling me and turned everything around to make it all my fault.Anyhow I am very glad that I do not have to deal with this guy no longer. He would make excuses & go on to do it again. I have thought about leaving my position many times but I need the job as well as can not leave this poor old man with her. They bring drama and damage. If he says it, in his mind, it’s true. I felt that if my daughter knew the truth about her mother it would hurt her. It was so unbelievable to me that the time to redress the press has passed. I paid an insurance policy on him for years because I knew he would not leave money for a funeral & I’d be on the hook for that. See in this clique who he claimed he did not like and would never hang around with, they are not taking their wives. Our justice and law are undermined by these types, why even build myself a life if a liar can ruin it and is not even held accountable?!? there is more but I am feeling angry and he will be home soon so I am going to stop. Since he has Invented Job interviews and Lied SO MUCH! You got caught in a lie; you were OUT and never coming back. I could no longer be scared of the lies she would tell and what people would think. I tried for five years to get back what I thought was the real us, only to find out that everything I based our relationship on was lies and total bullshit, which makes me look like a numpty, cause i belived his stories. She stole my car key (still will not admit it), which was the only copy I had, and I ended up having to get another key replaced for $220. And his dad isn’t dead! This relationship can be very damaging emotionally, physically, financially and spiritually. Once he left his phone on by accident I could hear a female voice him asking her if she wanted a coffee, he said it was his mps secretary he explains his problems to her. If my ex wife checked her out early my daughter would text and tell me, “hey dad mom picked me up early so you don’t have to get me from school, I will text you when I get to her house and let you know what time to get me” Nothing will get him to stop. It’s impossible to believe you have not lived it too. I am very damaged, injured, and ruined by these sociopath types! The girl I told on was extremely embarrass and then turned to me and swore she would get me back!! I pray not. She is gone, locks are changed, and supervisor informed she is not to contact our loved ones. You can’t change people, people change themselves; you should be able to talk to him about anything, if you cannot, you have to consider if that is the kind of relationship you wish to commit yourself to; lying doesn’t make for a happy life! I was so embarrassed that he had humilated me. All he did to me. Even though my ex wife is evil and heartless and soulless and it is hard to believe that evil is my child’s mother. Now that we have no contact with my ex. Most sociopaths, as you already established , have their own agenda. It’s all fake! Now his mother THINKS he Has A Job and has been giving him Money! I believe my sister is a patholigcal /compulsive liar. He wanted attention. Manager told me in beginning she was one of the best they had. the pot a horse shaped one in which my daughter had planted some seeds,she broke its front legs and told us that she was trying to scare the rat and in the process it happened, I will pray that God will watch over my grandson being as I will not be able to. Anyway, my friend would make arrangements with me to do things, and then would have to cancel because there was some business dilemma or another and he had to do this and that whilst continuing to work full time. Pathological liars lie to gain something. On first impressions she would come across as extremely charming and would seemingly go out of her way to help people but it soon became apparent that it was just a form of control and manipulation. It is shocking to know that your own parents would have stood back and let you take your own life, just to hide their own actions, but they did exactly that! He is a dangerous individual and I pity anyone who is sucked in. Have I really married a sociopathic liar? i had not noticed my disorder properly until i had ruined my whole life. I have never seen anything like this and she actually has people believing I am the problem! There are generally two recognized categories of individuals who constantly lie: compulsive (habitual) liars and pathological liars. I am thankful for my daughter because she is a wonderful little girl (she is now 16 years old, and the light of my world) How do you get out? She cant fix him. He went to a motel, I guess he did that thinking that was my worst fear, losing him. All to familiar for me too, now a sufferer of PTSD as I hung on too long, I wanted to know just like you sir IF their was anything worth saving or helping to save itself. 12 Ways Narcissists or Sociopaths Reveal a Pathological Intent to Harm . Then the mother in law accuse the children of taking sides. 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